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To Smack Or Not To Smack?

This is a tough question that all parents face. Modern parenting and modern society deem smacking as a negative method of bringing up a child. Smacking in traditional parenting Well, the truth be told, I was brought up by a very strict and fierce mother who would not think twice about giving me and my siblings the cane to enforce proper behavior in us. My siblings and I were beaten whenever and wherever we were naughty and not behaving as my mother saw fit, which was to speak politely when you are spoken to, to not touch other people's belongings, to not accept any gifts or treats from strangers and friends without first asking her, to study hard, and to not fight with other children, even if we did not start the fight. So, my siblings and I were brought up with the strictest rules and without our voice heard at home, but did that hurt us? Frankly, I do not believe that it has. I guess in this day and time, my mother would probably be brought up for child abuse, which I would find ...

Power Of Praise

  Power Of Praise In Positive Parenting T o practice positive parenting , we need to learn to give praises when our children has taken the right actions. Praising is a good positive encouragement to our children as it makes them feel good and proud that you noticed, and the good feeling would encourage them to perform the same or similar actions more frequently. Simultaneously, it also makes you feel good about yourself, and helps you to bond and have a more rewarding relationship with your kids. The practice of praising does not only help you with positive parenting as the benefits of being able to praise honestly has many other benefits as well; as written below by  Chris Widener , a personal development and leadership expert on  The Power of Praising Your Family  : "Your relationship grows .  Life is about relationships: family relationships, friends and co-workers. When we begin to praise people for their positive aspects, our relationships grow. It puts the...